India’s best motivational speaker Naseer Khan at 100 INFOSEC MAESTROS Awards Mumbai

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At The Hotel Intercontinental Lalit, Sahar International Airport Mumbai, we had been sitting and listening to various panel discussions and marketing pitches since 10 O’clock in the morning.

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The hall was filled with top-shots of Corporate India; CISOs, CEOs, VPs and Country Heads.

The best motivatioal speaker in India Naseer Khan

The best motivatioal speaker in India Naseer Khan

The best motivatioal speaker in India Naseer Khan

The best motivatioal speaker in India Naseer Khan

The best motivatioal speaker in India Naseer Khan

 

The last session of the day was Entertainment Session at 8 pm. We were not expecting a motivational guru to be speaking to us at the end of a long day.

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But lo and behold! Naseer Khan held us captivated from minute one.

The best motivational speaker in India Naseer Khan

The best motivational speaker in India Naseer Khan

 

 

He just blew our minds up. Naseer spoke on “The Leadership of Tomorrow”. The kind of wisdom he shared with us was mind-boggling! The way he shared world class information and secrets of a better future was just mesmerizing.

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He gave us amazingly practical tools so that we can handle today’s pressures and create a future of dreams.

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We learned.

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We enjoyed.

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We laughed.

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We meditated.

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Deep relaxation

 

We “Hi fived”

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We jumped.

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We hopped.

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In one hour, we were transformed.

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Naseer Khan is simply the best motivational speaker in the country today.

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Rajesh Garg from Rolta said: It was a pleasure meeting a genius. We were ecstatically shocked to see Mr. Naseer Khan’s performance and wisdom.

 

Subhash Singh Punjabi from Endurance said : Dear Mr. Naseer Khan, Your session was mind blowing. Our energy boosted manyfold. Request you to share the presentation done last night.

 

Kamal Matta from Soni Biochem said: Mr. Naseer Khan, you are arguably the bast motivational speaker in India. I feel it was a wonderful experience to be part of your session at 100 Infosec Maestros Awards. You gave a boost to our energy and your programme helps top executives in a great way. We feel better prepared to face day-to-day challenges with a better perspective now. Thanks.

 

Rohit Verma from IBM India said: I got wisdom of ages from this humble genius in 55 minutes. I feel truly enlightened.

 

Jitendra Shrivastava from Fanatic Media said: We were apprehensive about a motivational speaker in our event but chose to put our bet on Naseer Khan. Oh, was he bang on target! He just shook the whole ambiance. The audience was thrilled and we the organisers were deeply satisfied and thankful. Almost every participant came to me to enquire about Mr. Naseer Khan’s contact details.

 

Aloke Chakravartty from JESSOP said: Naseer is a wonderful young man filled with massive energy and passion to elevate human beings. I am really impressed with his way of connecting with us. By far the best!

 

Ashish Mishra from TESCO said: Mr. Khan, it was awesome seeing you. I had seen TED speeches but nothing like you. You were wonderfully impressive. I would like you in my company too.

Pradipta Kumar Patro from Tata AIA said: Very energetic session. I want my sales team to be trained by Mr. Naseer Khan. We need such a motivational speaker who can instill energy and passion in our people. Naseer Khan is the right man.

 

What are the defining qualities of a Great Motivational Speaker?

Historically, anyone who spoke professionally would often be labeled as a motivational speaker, regardless of the actual content of their presentations. For instance, Wikipedia defines a motivational speaker as “a professional speaker, facilitator or trainer who speaks to audiences, usually for a fee” — pretty broad definition.

Lumping all professional speakers into the category of “motivational speakers” presents challenges for meeting professionals and is frustrating to speakers who feel that “motivational speaker” is not the appropriate category for them.

True motivational speakers come from many different backgrounds and possess the proven ability to lift up, educate and motivate their audiences. The best of them will engage the audience by sharing best practices, experiences and life lessons while utilizing humor, storytelling, and originality — and refraining from “canned” speeches.

How are Motivational Speakers utilized in meetings, conferences and conventions?

A motivational speaker is typically engaged to generate an immediate response among presentation participants, boosting enthusiasm and energy while delivering relevant, practical content coinciding with a meeting’s theme or objectives.

Motivational speakers are often utilized as keynote speakers to open or close events in dynamic fashion, with a typical presentation ranging from 45 to 90 minutes, although some are as short as 30 minutes or as long as two hours.

What is the difference between a Motivational Speaker and an Inspirational Speaker?

Wikipedia describes a motivational speaker as one who has “the proven ability to lift up, educate and motivate their audiences.” In contrast, Wikipedia defines an inspirational speaker as one who “address[es] audiences with the aim of inspiring the listeners to higher values or engendering understanding about life and themselves.”To inspire, according to the American Heritage Dictionary, is to fill with enlivening or exalting emotion. To motivate is to provide with an incentive; move to action; impel. Note that inspiration connects with emotion; motivation connects with action.

Many managers ask, ‘why is motivation at work really important?’

There probably are far too many people in our company who are full of talented and potential.  Yet they lack the drive, the motivation, the reason and the inspiration to do their best at work.   And you probably already know that if left unattended, it leads to a growing decline of productivity.  Lower productivity leads to being less competitive, which means lower profits.  And if continued it may turn out to be disastrous.

Now more than ever, leading countries, cities, governments, companies, associations and groups are aware that Employee training is no longer an option. It is a requirement. The investment made in grooming and constantly refining your human capital will be the only true edge you will possess in a globally competitive climate.

Many companies realize they are losing millions in profits because of productivity loss in people without continuous training but they are not quick to act. That’s the difference between world leaders and ‘also-rans’.

A business motivational speaker that can impart not only first class global knowledge but also breathe inspiration into your audience is valuable. In fact, it’s invaluable.

Next time you are looking for a motivational speaker for your next event, consider

  • Their international experience.
  • Their flexibility to incorporate your theme.
  • Their ability to connect with your audience.
  • Their capacity to deliver the desired message with impact.

Naseer Khan is the leading motivational speaker and Success coach from India. Reach him on http://www.naseerkhan.in

“Leadership Transformation” Training for ALSTONE INTERNATIONAL by Naseer at Camp Redstone Dehradun

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India’s leading motivational speaker and success coach M Naseer Khan conducted a three day “Leadership Transformation” Training for the 80 member marketing and leadership team of Alstone International at Camp Redstone near Dehradun.

Alstone International is the India’s Largest manufacturer of Aluminum Composite Panels and has the widest range of ACP in the Industry. Alstone is the only manufacturer of Silicon Sealant in Indai.

Located in the foothills of the lower western Himalayas at an altitude of 3,300 feet (1000 meters) above sea level, in village ‘Mahendrapur’, The Camp Redstone is spread over 20 acres of land set amidst lush green forest alongside ‘Song River’.

M Naseer Khan is one of the most inspiring motivational speakers and corporate trainers in India. He is by far the most energetic and captivating speaker in the country. Energy just flows when he is among the people. Naseer uses advanced techniques like NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), Hypnosis, etc. to engage the audience and lead them to use what they learn during his seminars so that they can create a positive lasting change in their life.

Naseer is constantly engaged by the military, education and corporate sector to energize, inspire and train their people.

“Leadership Transformation” was a unique kind of training. I thought it was just amazing to be a part of the camp. There was so much of energy flowing all the time. In the month of November it gets quite cold there, but out entire focus was on what Naseer was teaching us and asking us to do.

There were participants from different parts of the country since Alstone has branches all over; Delhi, Noida, Kochi, Raipur, Pune, Mumbai, Ahmedabad, Chennai, Kolkata, Indore, Lucknow, etc.

When the camp started, we were employees from different branches. When the camp finished we were a team, a family. And we had one voice; the howl of a wolf. Yes, we all learnt that from Naseer Khan. One more thing that we started doing frequently during these four days was ‘high fiving’.

Day 1

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After some outdoor activities, we gathered for the first day of Naseer’s training. Honestly speaking, we were not extremely excited about the training, we expected some kind of motivational lecture, but Naseer truly blew our minds off. The first day training was a 180 minute “Transformation”.It wasn’t a ‘lecture’ at all. We did many things during the seminar. Many NLP and Hypnosis exercises. Music played an important part in the training. We jumped. We hopped. We cried. We laughed.

We learnt how to develop unshakable confidence. How to choose Belief Systems that are relevant today, that are useful for us. We saw how could handle stress by simply choosing to be happy. We found out the power of positive thinking.

The program was unlike anything I had ever attended, it gets you out of the comfort zone and/or your daily routine to focus in areas of life that the average person who goes about their daily business does not focus.

Day 2

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Day 2 was ‘Leadership Transformation’. Naseer showed us in his own unique way what leadership is and why every employee of a company should have it.

We were again totally immersed in it. We saw how the greatest of the leaders went about their work. I realized I didn’t need a title in order to be a leader. I had never been very interested in reading but when I saw how most of the leaders have been avid readers I decided to change and start reading. In fact I bought The Alchemist which Naseer had suggested during the seminar and finished in 2 days. Oh, boy! What a feeling!

We learnt that a leader has to be teachable no matter what point of career he is at.Naseer gave us an acronym; DBA, Dream, Believe and Act. Then he said, “Ask, Seek, Knock”. Of course he took the verses from the Bible but he added his own flavour to it. It was so interesting to hear India’s leading motivational speaker and success coach M Naseer Khan live.

Day 3

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Day 3 was ‘Leadership Transformation’ Part II.By far it was the most energizing seminar. We were sitting in the open and cold but each and every one of us was so excited and energized.

Naseer gave examples upon examples, one case study after other in order to prove his point. He said, ‘Knowledge is not power if you don’t apply it’.

We did exercises which taught us how to create energy within us instantly. During ‘Dreams’ sections we set our goals for the next 20 years using NLP and self hypnosis.

Naseer said great leaders are great delegators, for example Steve Jobs.They sell dreams not products. They dare. They love. They walk the talk. They are dependable. And they have a passion for their work, people and company. Naseer showed us why and how ‘honesty’ is the best policy. There are no short cuts. There are no free lunches.

India’s leading motivational speaker and success coach M Naseer Khan instilled huge amount of energy, passion, confidence and excitement in the team of Alstone International. We are all charged up to lead now.

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Pawan Garg (Founder Director, Alstone International) said:

We thank Mr. Naseer Khan from the core of our hearts for coming and coaching our team. I had never expected such results. Now our team shouts out loud together, ‘Yes, we can, yes, we will’.

Sumit Gupta (Founder Director, Alstone International) said:

I found out education can be so much of fun. Mr. Khan delivered profound wisdom with such a lot of fun in a unique and entertaining style of delivery.

Ajit Kumar Sinha (Senior Manager, Alstone International) said:

‘Transformation’ was amazing. It has a very apt name. For the first time I saw our team members singing and dancing together till 3 am in the morning. Even they themselves don’t realize what Transformation has taken place deep down their subconscious mind.

Garima Kalhans (HR Manager, Alstone International) said:

The training was very productive and result oriented. I am certainly going to apply this knowledge in my life.

Joy Verghese (Senior Manager, Alstone International) said:

It was not just motivational speaking. It was practical coaching. Now we have tools to produce better and bigger results on the field. Thanks to Mr. Naseer Khan.

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Anjan Ghoshal (Senior Manager, Alstone International) said:

Thanks to Mr. Naseer Khan I found practical solutions to my challenges. I applied what he taught right there in the camp and got results. I had never met such a teacher in my life. He is a powerhouse of energy.

Deepanker Garg (Research & Development Manager, Alstone International) said:

Energising! I am very happy.

Rahul Sharma (Marketing Manager, Alstone International) said:

It was the best training camp on this planet. I quit my negative habits during the camp.

Sumit Tyagi (Alstone International) said:

I had never attended this type of training. I have more energy now.

Radhika Kochar (HR Manager, Alstone International) said:

I learnt many life changing lessons. It was fantastic.

Ravi Mishra (Alstone International) said:

It was like an explosion. Mind blowing. Yes, we can.

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Saurabh Kumar Mishra (Executive, Alstone International) said:

This is the best kind of learning.

Diwakar Singh (Marketing Manager, Alstone International) said:

Fantastic! It was really the best event I ever attended.

Sudhir Sharma (Marketing Manager, Alstone International) said:

This helped me understand life in a better way. Thanks Naseer sir and team Elevate.

Arvind Kumar Gangwar (Marketing Manager, Alstone International) said:

I gained numerous things from here; confidence, beliefs, energy…

Rakesh Roshan (Marketing Manager, Alstone International) said:

It was the best event of my life.

Mukesh Kalwani (Manager, Alstone International) said:

Oh, yes. I can.

Jyoti Thakur (HR Manager, Alstone International) said:

Great & Fantastic.

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Success Coach Naseer Khan Motivates the Indian Army at 1 STC

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Naseer Khan with the Army Officers along with Brigadier Mahesh Moolri

The atmosphere was electric. When more than 200 invited participants entered the Batra Auditorium, the music pumping through the speakers pulsed beats of excitement through the crowd. The anticipation was high as the lights dimmed and Shiv Priti, the event’s host, took the stage to welcome everyone. Army officers were excited and charged up. It was a new kind of experience. They did things they didn’t imagine they would do during a ‘lecture’. They later said they had never attended such a thing before. It was ‘Transformation’. It was happening at the Headquarters of India Army’s 1 Signals Training Centre. The chief guest was the Commandant of 1 STC Brigadier Mahesh Moolri, and he himself participated in Transformation with huge enthusiasm. India’s leading motivational speaker and Success Coach Naseer Khan was there to train the officers of the esteemed Indian Army.

Naseer filled the army men with energy and excitement with his style of delivery along with music, videos, exercises, NLP and Hypnosis. According to Naseer, “Your yesterday doesn’t determine your tomorrow”. He said he had studied in schools where teachers hardly taught. Pigs roamed around in the school ground. They were 9 brothers and sisters and his parents couldn’t afford good schools. Nobody spoke English where he lived. There was nobody to look up to for inspiration. He sold table-cloth from door to door. But, he said, he was privileged to share ideas with some of the brightest minds in the world, he had been across the globe, worked for some of the most reputed corporations in India and in Italy. Naseer hammered the point home- our past cannot be changed but we can change our future.

The audience did many NLP exercises, they learnt that happiness was a choice, we would not have to fight ‘stress’ if we chose to be happy every day.

Naseer said our beliefs run our lives. The people who commit suicide believe that that is the best option. A farmer takes a loan, can’t repay, and commit suicide. He firmly believes there are no other ways left. But we all re-present the situation according to our own belief systems.

When it comes to our lives, the biggest favour we can do ourselves is to remember Naseer’s advice: Get rid of irrelevant beliefs. The earth is not flat anymore. Cultivate better, constructive and uplifting beliefs.

He also showed the audience the importance of focus. The participants could clearly see how important it is to focus on our strengths and the tasks rather than problems and weaknesses.

These points are just a tiny fraction of what Naseer Khan shared with the 1 STC crowd. It was truly inspiring, elating, and action-packed three hours.

The Commandant Brigadier Moolri thanked Naseer Khan, he said his attention did not wander for even a second during these 3 hours. He added that the army people could benefit a lot from this event called ‘Transformation’.
The coordinator of the event Col Sanjay Khatri said it was great to have Naseer Khan at 1 STC, he is truly inspiring and his words are tremendously powerful.
Col R S Samar told the audience the event was so energizing; he had never seen such a programme in his life.
At the end of the event Col D Bhattacharya, Col Rajeev Tuli, Col B R Chharang, Col A Pandey, Col G S Gujral, and Col Ashok Rana thanked Motivational Speaker and Success Coach Naseer Khan. They said they learnt valuable lessons on Stress Management, Leadership, Goal Setting, Law of Attraction, Time Management, Positive Attitude, Power of Focus and Belief Systems.

Naseer Khan the best motivational speaker in India

TOP 5 MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKERS IN INDIA

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We first published this list in 2012 and by 2016 we have seen a couple of changes on it.

Motivational speakers provide informative and inspirational speeches to clusters of people. They are employed mostly by businesses, event organizers and schools to speak on topics such as living a healthy lifestyle, organizing one’s personal life, or business and financial success. Motivational speakers are experts in tailor fitting their messages to their audiences whether it is a crowd of business executives or a class of secondary students.

Motivational speakers help individuals motivate mental, spiritual, social, physical, financial and career aspects of their lives. Motivational speakers should work hard in maintaining and developing their abilities and verbal communication skills, as this is a vital element of the job. A good motivational speaker should do research to continuously keep up with trends and events regarding the subject matter that they speak about. They must also have the skill to converse with their audiences after every speech to offer consultations and answer queries. Considered experts in their field, motivational speakers are looked to when insights are essential in that given area.

In the western world, especially in America, motivational speakers like Tony Robbins, Les Brown, Zig Ziglar, Jack Canfield, Jim Rohn and Bob Proctor have helped businesses and people grow and reach their true potential. Some of these speakers speak more than 200 days in a calender year. In India, the trend is slowly picking up, corporate world and even the Indian Army is calling motivational speakers to help their people and motivate them to do their best.

There is huge number of ‘speakers’ in India. Here is a list of 5 of the most popular ones:

No. 5 SANDEEP MAHESHWARI

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Sandeep Maheshwari is a name among millions who struggled, failed and surged ahead in search of success, happiness and contentment. Just like any other middle class guy, he too had a bunch of unclear dreams and a blurred vision of his goals in life. All he had was an undying learning attitude to hold on to. Rowing through ups and downs, it was time that taught him the true meaning of his life.

And once discovered, he consistently kept resigning from his comfort zone and to share the secret of his success with the entire world. It is this very urge of helping people and doing something good for the society that inspired him to take the initiative of changing people’s lives in the form of “Free Life-Changing Seminars and Sessions”.

No wonder people connect with him and his mission of ‘Sharing’ is now being actively propagated and practiced by millions. It is his diligent focus, the great support of his family and the faith of his team that keeps him going.

 

No. 4 T. S. MADAAN

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Mr. T.S.Madaan (Tarvinder Singh Madaan) is a Hindi Motivational Speaker and Comedian. He is a  retired LIC employee. A regular blood donor (36 times till date), an actor, a singer and a painter, he is extremely popular amongst his audience. He has served various clubs and associations as President. Born on 14 November, 1958 in a highly educated family, he himself has been trained by world’s best trainers, educators and motivators. His sessions are designed to infuse dynamism and vigour into the participants, to make them more Productive. His Motivational Talk generally consists of Positive Attitude, Big Goals, Customer Care, Human Relations, Stress Management, Anger Management, Self Confidence, Communication Skills, Behaviour, Time management etc. The various benefits to the organisation are Enhanced Productivity, Performance, Commitment, Loyalty, Employee/Employer Relations, Team Work etc. and the benefits to the audience are Enhanced Family Happiness, Social Acceptability, Self-esteem, Patience, Tolerance etc.  His delivery style is Interactive, Entertaining and Powerful. He is considered among good motivational speakers in India.

 No. 3 SHIV KHERA

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Mr. Shiv Khera is the founder of Qualified Learning Systems Inc. USA. An Author, Educator, Business Consultant and successful Entrepreneur, he is a much sought-after motivational speaker.

He inspires and encourages people, making them realize their true potential. He has taken his dynamic personal messages to opposite sides of the globe, from the U.S. to Singapore. His 30 years of research, understanding and experience have helped people on the path of personal growth and fulfillment.

Mr. Khera is the author of 12 books including international bestseller “You Can Win”, which has sold over 2 million copies in 16 languages. His other books are creating new records. He is a popular author, consultant and motivational speaker in India.

No. 2 Deepak Chopra

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Born Deepak Chopra in 1947 (he claims to have forgotten his exact birthday) in New Delhi, India.  He is a very famous motivational speaker in India. The son of an eminent cardiologist, Krishnan Chopra, Deepak at first spurned his father’s career path, wanting instead to pursue a career as a journalist. Eventually, however, he became enthralled with the subject of medicine and enrolled at the All India Institute of Medical Sciences in his native city.

After a meeting with transcendental mediation guru Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, Chopra quit his job at New England Memorial Hospital and started the Maharishi Ayur-Veda Products International, a company that specialized in alternative products, like herbal teas and oils. Co-founded with the Maharishi, the company successfully launched Chopra into the world of alternative medicine.

No. 1 M NASEER KHAN

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Mr. M Naseer Khan, today, is  the most inspiring motivational speaker and success coach in India. His clientele include Fortune500 companies.

Consistently ranked among top Indian motivational speakers, Naseer is by far the most energetic and captivating speaker in the country. Energy just flows when he is among the people. His events are more like a rock-concert.

Naseer uses advanced techniques like NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), Hypnosis, Music, etc. to engage the audience and lead them to use what they learn during his seminars so that they can create a positive lasting change in their life.

He was born in a small city of India- Jabalpur. One amongst 9 siblings Naseer has an inspiring story of rags-to-riches.

Naseer has worked in India, Europe and Africa with a wide variety of public and private organizations in virtually every arena, from the Military sector to Financial Services, Manufacturing, Health, I.T., Retail, Police, Universities and many more.

He is an M.B.A. from University of Macerata, Italy. Because he has studied and worked in Europe, he has a vast international exposure and a great understanding of multiculturalism. He has worked with such big institutions as The Indian Army, The Police, HCL, British Telecom, Hindustan Petroleum, Axis Bank, CADD, Genpact, Valvoline, etc. for about 20 years. He is the founder Director of Elevate Global Training Solutions.

Naseer is famous for his very popular 5 hour long motivational event “Transformation” in India.

Organisations mainly invite Naseer Khan to talk about The Secrets to Success,  Leadership of Tomorrow, Confidence Building, Goal Setting, Success Strategies, Power Selling, Employee Motivation, Power of Dreams, Youth Empowerment, and Personality TRANSFORMATION.  Corporates trust him because he is an expert on enhancing productivity and happiness of their team members. The quality that sets him apart is the fun and passion that the participants feel while learning in Naseer’s seminars. You not only ‘learn’ but actually ‘do’ it with Naseer. He says ‘Knowledge is useless if you don’t use it’.

Whether you are a student, an employee, a housewife or have been in business for years, Naseer’s training will give you proven strategies and time tested systems to create a bright future. His message is simple, powerful and practical.

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• Are you looking for a speaker who can educate, entertain, surprise and energize your people?

• Do you want to increase the productivity and effectiveness of your staff dramatically?

• Do you want a key note speech to kick-start your next conference or event?

• Do you want a speaker who doesn’t just read theories and show PowerPoint slides jam-packed with text?

• Do you want to create passion in your people?

• Do you want someone who can enhance productivity and happiness of your people?

Mr. Naseer Khan is one of the most inspiring motivational speakers and corporate trainers in India. Energy just flows when he is among the people. Naseer uses advanced techniques like NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), Hypnosis, etc. to engage the audience and lead them to use what they learn during his seminars so that they can create a positive lasting change in their life. His style of delivery is absolutely unique.

He is constantly engaged by the Corporate, Police, Military and Education sector to train, inspire and empower their people.

Naseer comes from very humble beginnings. One amongst 9 siblings, he started working as a door-to-door salesman when he was 18. He is an M.B.A. from University of Macerata, Italy. He is also an M.A. in English Literature and Political Science.

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The best motivational speaker in India Naseer Khan

He mainly talks about Power Selling, Employee Motivation , Stress Elimination, High Performance Leadership , Confidence Building, Conflict Resolution, Goal Setting, Success Strategies, Law of Attraction, Psychology of Wealth, Power of Dreams, Youth Empowerment, , and Personality TRANSFORMATION.

In a world where trainers, educators and motivators are hell-bent on convincing you that creating your best life is all about following their philosophy, buying their programmes and their products, Naseer Khan is an anomaly. Naseer doesn’t tell people he is the ‘guru’ who is the answer to all their problems. He is a coach who is ready to be there when you need, who will inspire you and challenge you to be and have the best you can. Naseer believes belief is power. You have to think you can ever before you really can.

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He teaches that you’re the solution (and the problem). He teaches that forever change is a process which works from the inside out… and that too many people try and put right the internal matter with external solutions…He’s kind of challenging, honest, entertaining, amusing and confronting (periodically offensive) but he knows what works and if you’re genuinely ready to change then perhaps you will connect with him.